I had this happen once also in a production- I told her she either wore the costume I gave her or she doesn't come on stage and I put the understudy on (and even if you have to threaten to put the stage manager in with a script).
She needs to realize it's not her choice , she's not the director nor the costume designer for the productionMy favorite shows are when the actor doesn't like what they're wearing because then it changes how their character behaves when on stage. ;)
Myndee Fleury Washington
Music & Drama Teacher
Union Park Charter Academy
"Logic will get you from A to B. Imagination will take you EVERYWHERE"- Albert Einstein